With Natasha, you’re not just navigating heartbreak; you’re embarking on a journey towards greater self-esteem and self-love.
The first thing you need to do after a breakup is remember who the f*ck you are. But how can you remember what you need to when you were in a relationship that required you to forget what you could not afford to forget (your strength, your standards, and yourself )? How could this happen after you gave so much and asked for so little? Why wasn’t it enough? Why weren’t you enough?
Get the closure you need, the answers you haven’t been able to find, and WIN (without reducing anything to a game) with “Win Your Breakup,” the #1 Wall Street Journal and USA Today bestseller, written by Natasha Adamo. This book is a powerful tool for navigating the aftermath of a breakup with a toxic ex.
Winning your breakup is not about acting on vengeful feelings, becoming a carrot-dangling tactician, or playing games. It’s about a willingness to do what you have never done before and having the courage to look in the mirror. It’s about using spiteful feelings to your dignified advantage after realizing you’ve invested in a relational Ponzi scheme.
Unlike a game, breakups are won through resignation. They’re won by giving up on trying to make sense out of nonsense. They’re won by realizing that the real “win” was losing a partner who does not have the ability to meet you anywhere close to halfway. This mentality delivers everything you hope cheap revenge will but never does.
💔 6 Things You’ll Learn in Win Your Breakup
Because getting over them isn’t enough. It’s time to win.
Why You're Addicted to the Wrong Person
It’s not love. It’s trauma bonding. Natasha breaks down the science and psychology behind why you’re still stuck—and how to finally let go.
How to Stop Obsessing Over Someone Who Couldn't Choose You
Every scroll, stalk, and late-night spiral ends here. This book gives you the tools to cut the invisible cord and reclaim your peace.
How to Rebuild Self-Worth When You Feel Unlovable
You didn’t lose them. You lost the version of yourself that settled for less. Natasha shows you how to rise with dignity and power.
How to Stop Texting Back and Start Holding Boundaries
Silence isn’t weakness—it’s transformation. Learn how to go no-contact, hold your line, and stop negotiating your worth.
How to Become the One That Got Away
You don’t get revenge by being bitter. You win by healing, leveling up, and living in a way that makes them irrelevant.
How to Finally Move On—Without Needing Closure
Spoiler: Closure is often just more manipulation. You’ll learn how to close the chapter yourself and never look back.
Testimonials
Mastin Kipp
Creator of Functional Life Coaching ™ and 2x Bestselling Author
Natasha’s unwavering dedication and compassion have empowered millions of people throughout the world to discover their true strength.
Sabrina Soto
HGTV Host & Renowned Interior Designer
Natasha is undoubtedly one of the best writers and coaches in the relationship world. She has a knack for extracting your pain and turning it on its head where you come out on top.
Greg Behrendt
#1 New York Times Bestselling Co-Author of He’s Just Not That Into You
Natasha will show you how to use the education your pain has given you and remember who you are.
Gretchen Rossi
The Real Housewives Orange County
Most people offering relationship advice simply use common sense, but the human heart defies common sense. And Natasha is one of the few people who truly gets it in all its complexity – and simplicity.
Neil Strauss
10x New York Times Bestselling Author
Natasha will quickly become your favorite cheerleader, sister and friend. Her unmatched wisdom, compassion and vulnerability always feels like comfort food for the heart.
Megan Henderson
KTLA-TV Morning News Anchor
Anyone who has the opportunity to work with (or learn from) Natasha, should consider themselves fortunate. She’s the real deal, speaking from a powerful combination of empathy and experience.
Kyle Creek, aka “The Captain
The truth has a feeling, love has a feeling, and Natasha is full of both.
Kelsey Wells
Internationally Acclaimed Fitness Trainer
Life, love, and self-esteem. Those three can all play a role in some serious head-games. Fortunately, a very wise and caring guide by the name of Natasha is there as a guide to navigating those often-treacherous (and sometimes just plain yucky) land mines. Tap into her wisdom through the resources she is so generously sharing and live a life that is a lot more fun, a lot less stressful, and simply a lot happier.
Bob Burg
Bestselling Author
About Natasha Adamo
I am the #1 bestselling author of Win Your Breakup: How To Be The One That Got Away. Along with coaching clients around the world and doing in-person events, I write relationship, self-help, and life advice here on my blog and have created a community with courses, live Q&As and more on my app.
My life’s mission is to get you to become attracted to what’s good for you instead of what triggers you into always trying to be “good enough.” I want to help you stop caring about what people think and start asking yourself what YOU think.
This isn’t about settling. It’s about upgrading and getting to experience a level of happiness and emotional freedom that most can only dream of.
I write and speak from the perspective of a straight woman (me). I cannot authentically write from any perspective or experience other than my own. However, I am honored to have coached thousands of people around the world and to have many readers from the LGBTQ Community. Everyone struggles with the same confusion, pain, and toxicity – it’s just different body parts and dynamics. The common denominators are always the same, and our pain is what connects us all.
Choosing to give that pain a purpose is what makes us family.
Although I write from the perspective of a straight woman, what I write about does not discriminate against gender, orientation, age, or stage in life. I do not, in any way, want to exclude anyone.
Additionally, I have a huge problem with and no respect for people who engage in male-bashing. Men are NOT the problem. Toxicity is the problem, self-hatred is the problem, and unhealed trauma is the problem – not men. I have many male clients and readers all around the world.
